I decided today that it would be financially advantageous for me to buy stock in Kleenex. Nora's poor nose has not been dry since we arrived. I went to her toddler play group today, saw not a single child with a clean nose or mother with a clean sleeve and knew that was the place for us.
Nora was a bit clingy the first few days after arriving in St. Andrews, wanting to stay near me at all times even during church, which was a challenge. No longer. On Sunday, the pastor of the church we're attending walked up to me carrying Nora. I was quite surprised she allowed this without protest, then realized she had a guilty look on her face. "She was trying to go out the front door," he said fatherly (he has two grown daughters of his own and an obvious soft spot for Nora). Then I knew, the old Nora had returned. She barely looked at me at toddler play group today. It is fun to see her enjoy children her own age. I'd even endure an hour and a half of 25 happily screaming toddlers to give her that opportunity, and I did.
Stephen has enjoyed resuming the life of a student and meeting the challenges of a different academic setting. He is taking two “modules” this semester -one required overview course and the other a more narrow, directed research course. He also decided to audit Latin to refresh his memory on the courses he took at PHC. He's taking the learning by teaching approach and including me in the evenings. It's been stimulating and fun to do something like that together. I don't know what I think about him assigning me homework though: making his flashcards.
There are a number of American students here. Thanks to the draw of the theology department here for American seminary students, we find ourselves surrounded by young Christian couples, many of them with children. I've been able to plug into Bible studies, book discussions, play groups and childcare swaps, which has allowed us to feel more settled than we would otherwise have felt after just two and a half weeks. The wives in this community have given tips on how to adapt here and lent a number of items for Nora (pack n' play, rain cover for stroller). We are so grateful for that aspect of being here.
After looking for some part-time work one afternoon last week, I got a job offer the next day over the phone. Once again, God provided (why do I worry?!). I started working as a waitress/ cashier/ barista at a locally owned coffee and sandwich shop on Monday. Stephen is able to be with Nora most of the time I'm out, which is comforting to me. I was able to work out a child swap with a couple moms for the few hours that conflict with Stephen's class schedule. The people I work with are so nice, and it's been fun to get to know some people in the community. I'm starting to learn the names of "the regulars." Now if I can just start understanding them, so I can stop writing down orders phonetically...
Well, if you haven't been able to tell, we're quite busy here at "the Stables" (the name of our flat). I plan to post pictures of Europe, tell stories of some of my "what's different" experiences in the early days of being here, and post pictures of the flat as time allows.
Goodnight!